Izizathu Ezibangelwa I-High High of Bullying Relation
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane kuqhuma kakhulu phakathi nenkathi yokufunda esikoleni esiphakathi ngoba iminyaka eyishumi nambili inamakhono enhlalakahle asemphakathini okwamanje isengakapheli ngokomzwelo. Inhlanganisela idala umhlaba ophelele wokuzalanisa izinhlobo eziningi zokuhlukunyezwa komphakathi. Ngakwesokunxele ukungahlosiwe ngokuthola amakhono wokuxazulula izingxabano kanye namasu okuxazulula izimo, amashumi ashiywe ukubhekana nokuziphatha okuxhashazayo okungaphezu kwalokho okudingekayo.
Isikole Sokuhlukumezeka Nokuhlukunyezwa
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane kuyindlela ekhohlisayo yokuhlukunyezwa . Njengalokhu, izihlukumezi ezihambisanayo zobudlelwane kumele zibe nokuqonda okuyinkimbinkimbi kwezindlela zomphakathi. Uma kuqhathaniswa nokuqala kwentuthuko, abantu abangu-13 bakwazi ukufunda kangcono izinkulumo zomphakathi futhi baxoxisane nobudlelwane obunzima bomuntu siqu. Lezi zakhono zabeka isiteji sokuhlukunyezwa kobudlelwano ukuze kukhule.
Ukufunda nokudonsa izinkinga ekuhlukumezeni
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuntu ohlukumezayo kufanele azi ukuthi angabangela kanjani omunye umuntu ukuba azizwe ubuhlungu. Lolu lwazi ludinga amakhono aphezulu okuqonda kanye nezenhlalakahle, kufaka phakathi namakhono okuthatha abanye imibono nokuzwela. AmaTweens asanda kuzuza kokubili amakhono, okuyinto enye isizathu sokuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwano esikoleni esiphakathi kuvamile. Abafundi besikole esiphakathi bakwazi ukuqonda kangcono ukuvusa imizwelo futhi babe namazwi ukuxhuma amachashazi. Uma isikhathi sesivuthiwe, abantu abangu-13 bangase bahlole i-acumen yabo kumuntu ongathandi ukuhlanganyela.
Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwesikole Ephakathi Nendawo Ephansi YeTweens
Kungenzeka ukuthi uzwile igama elithi "ukulimaza abantu, ukulimaza abantu." Ama-tweens azwela kakhulu futhi abe nobugovu obukhulu. Kakhulu kangangokuthi baveze imizwa yabo kwabanye, kuyilapho abantu ababili benza okufanayo. Lokhu kubangela ukucatshangelwa ukuthi ontanga yabo bafuna ukulimaza kangakanani.
Ngaphandle kokukhulumisana okufanelekile kokubili kokubili kwenkinga, okunikezwa imizwa ebuhlungu nokuzwela, kungaba nzima ukufika. Ngakho-ke, amaTween angase ahlasele ngokuzenzekelayo, nakuba kungabikho ukulimala uma bekungenzi lutho futhi bevele bekhuluma ngendlela abazizwa ngayo. Abantombazane, ikakhulukazi, kubonakala sengathi basebenzisa ukuhlukunyezwa , uhlobo olulodwa lokuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane, lapho becabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi othile uhlela ukuwenqaba .
Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwesikole Esiphakathi Nokuthuthukiswa Komphakathi
Kuzo zonke, ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi kuthuthukile kakhulu. Ngenkathi lezi zintuthuko zezenhlalakahle zibavumela ukuba benze izinto eziningi ezinhle, njengefomu lobuhlobo besikhathi eside futhi benze njengabaholi, kubenza bakwazi ukuphatha oontanga babo ngokuphumelelayo. Njengoba ukulawulwa kwabo ngokomzwelo kuqhubekela phambili, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwano kuyaba yinto engavamile ngoba bafunda ukubeka isheke ekuziphatheni kwabo okulimazayo . Njengoba ubona ukuxhumana kwakho kwe-tween, gcina amathebhu endleleni asabela ngayo ekuhlaselweni okuhlobene. Vula lezi zimo zibe yizikhathi ezifundiswayo ezizobasiza ukuba baphathe izimo kangcono ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Umthombo:
I-Leadbeater, uBonnie. Singayibona yini? Singakuyeka? Izifundo ezifundwa emibuthweni yocwaningo lweyunivesithi-yomphakathi mayelana nobudlova obuhlobene. 2010. Ukubukezwa Kwengqondo YeSikole; 39, 4: 588-593.