Ukubukeka ngokujulile ekuthuthukiseni kwentsha yakho eneminyaka engu-15
Ngesikhathi ingane yakho iphenduka engu-15, mhlawumbe ucabanga ukuthi uneminyaka embalwa nje embalwa kusuka ekudala. Futhi uma ingane yakho ibonakala sengathi ilula kakhulu ekungeneni ngokomzwelo nangomphakathi ngokwanele ukuze uphumelele ezweni elikhulile, awuyedwa.
Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Leyo minyaka phakathi kuka-15 no-18 ingasiza kakhulu ekusizeni ingane yakho ikhule futhi izuze amakhono adingekayo ukuba abe umuntu omdala onokwethenjelwa.
Kukhona ithuba elihle, noma kunjalo, ukuthi ingane yakho izocabanga ukuthi ilungele ukuthatha umhlaba manje. Futhi angase agcizelele ukuthi kakade uyazi konke. Lokho -ke konke ukucabanga ngesimo sokuhlubuka kungaba yinkambo yabantwana abaneminyaka engu-15 ubudala.
Ukuthuthukiswa Komphakathi
Kule minyaka, abangane baqala ukubaluleka. Futhi ingane yakho ingase iqale ukuveza izithakazelo ebuhlotsheni bomshado. Abaningi abaneminyaka engu-15 banethonya lokucindezela kontanga.
Uneminyaka engu-15 ubudala ubona izinkinga ezinzima ngontanga angase angafuni ukukutshela ngakho. Lokho, kuhlangene nesidingo sokuzimela okukhulu, kungenza ingane yakho ibonakale ikude ngezikhathi ezithile.
Uneminyaka engu-15 ubudala angase aphikisana uma uzama ukubuza imibuzo eminingi kakhulu ngosuku lwakhe noma ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni yakhe. Futhi nakuba kubalulekile ukunikeza ubumfihlo, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi kwenzekani nomntanakho.
Ukuthuthukiswa Komzwelo
Lapho uneminyaka engu-15 ubudala, intsha iqala ukucabanga ukuthi kungaba njani ukuhlala yedwa.
Ngenkathi intsha eningi ingase icabange ekolishi, abanye bangase bacabange ngokuzakhela indlu yabo.
Ngokuvamile baqaphele oontanga babo abadala ukuthi bathole imisebenzi, bafunde esikoleni esiphakeme, futhi bangene ezweni langempela. Ungase uthole imibuzo eyokushaqeka, njengokuthi, "Ucabanga ngani ngingahambi ekolishi?"
Uneminyaka engu-15 ubudala angase agxilwe ngamamaki, ubuhlobo, nezinye izinkinga ezisencane.
Futhi angase akhathazeke kakhulu ngokubukeka kwakhe.
Njengoba ingane yakho iqala ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wayo, kungase kube nzima ukuthola ukuthi ungubani. Kungase kube nzima ukuzethemba futhi kungase kube nokulindela okukhulu ngaye.
Vumela Ingane Yakho Izuze Amalungelo
Intsha ikhulile ngamanani ahlukene kakhulu. Abaneminyaka engu-15 ubudala balungele ukufunda ukushayela futhi bakwazi ukuphatha cishe yonke imithwalo yabo yemfanelo ngokwabo. Abanye, noma kunjalo, abakwazi ukukhumbula ukuhlanza amakamelo abo kanye nokuzikhandla ukuze benze umsebenzi wesikole okwenziwa ngesikhathi.
Yenza amalungelo omntanakho afane nekhono lakhe lokuba nomthwalo wemfanelo. Mtshele ukuthi angathola inkululeko ngokukukhombisa ukuthi uyakwazi ukusingatha ukuzimela okuningi.
I-curfew kamva ingase iboshwe ekufezeni imisebenzi yakhe. Ukuthatha imfundo yomshayeli kungaxhunyaniswa nokuthola amamaki amahle.
Lindela ukuzwa izinto ezinjengalezi, "Uma ngisekhaya ngehora lesikhathi , kungani ngidinga ukukutshela ukuthi ngiya kuphi?" Yenza kucace ukuthi ngokulandela imithetho yakho futhi ukutshela ukuthi uya kuphi, ubonisa ukuthi angakwazi ukuphatha umthwalo wemfanelo.
Abaningi abaneminyaka engu-15 abalungele inkululeko eningi njengoba becabanga ukuthi bangayisingatha. Ngakho kubalulekile ukubeka imingcele enempilo futhi ulandele ngemiphumela ecacile .
Ukukhathazeka Ukuthi U-Teen's Development of Teen's 15 Akuyona Ejwayelekile?
Abazali abaningi abaneminyaka engu-15 ubudala banenkinga yokuthi ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi nezomzwelo kuyashesha kakhulu noma kungasheshi ngokwanele. Noma abazali baqala ukubona izixwayiso zokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa noma izibonakaliso zokugula kwengqondo njengoba ukukhulelwa ngokuvamile kuyinkinga yezenhlalakahle nezomzwelo ngaphezulu.
Uma ukhathazekile ngentuthuko yakho yentsha, khuluma nodokotela. Uma udokotela wengane yakho enenkinga, ingane yakho ingathunyelwa kumhlinzeki wezempilo yengqondo ukuze kuhlolwe okuqhubekayo.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry: Intsha Yokuthuthukiswa Ingxenye 1.
> I-Wayne State University Physician Group: Ukuthuthukiswa Okuvamile: I-Adolescence Ephakathi.