Ngaphandle kokungabaza, umbuzo obuzwe kunazo zonke kubazali be-preemie kuzo zonke i-NICU, nsuku zonke, yonke indawo, "Ngabe ingane yami izobuya nini?" Kuyinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke umzali oyilangazelela, amaphupho alo, aziqhenya, futhi ngesizathu esihle!
Kungabe kuyakumangaza ukwazi ukuthi uma usuku olukhulu lufika ekugcineni, lapho amasonto noma izinyanga zokulinda ekugcineni sekuphela futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha isisindo sabo esiphundu senjabulo ekhaya, abazali abaningi bazizwa bekhululekile futhi bengakulungeli ngokuphelele?
Ukubeletha ku-NICU
Uma unomntwana ku-NICU, ingabe lokhu kuzwakala kujwayelene? Ngisho noma ungeke ume ukushiya ingane yakho futhi awukwazi ukulinda ukumletha ekhaya, ingabe uzizwa sengathi uzobe ungakulungele uma usuku lufika?
Iqiniso liwukuthi i-NICU iyindawo enamandla kakhulu . Bazali, ufakwa engxenyeni engavamile yokubazali, uhlezi eceleni njengoba abahlengikazi nodokotela benakekela ingane yakho, futhi kulula ukuvumela sonke leso sikhathi sidlule ngaphandle kokuthi uzizwe sengathi ufunda ukunakekela ingane yakho. Ungabheka wonke umuntu ukuba anakekele ingane yakho, kodwa umcabango wokuthi uzoba nomthwalo wemfanelo ophelele wengane yakho ingabonakala iyethusa. Futhi cha, ngeshwa, awukwazi ukuletha abahlengikazi bakho abathandayo nawe ekhaya!
Kule minyaka, sifundile amasu amaningana mayelana nezindlela ezinhle zokulungiselela usuku olukhulu. Ngokwenza isikhathi sakho esiningi kakhulu ku-NICU, ukushintshela kwakho ekuphileni ndawonye ekhaya kungaba lula futhi kungesabi kakhulu ngokulungiselela okuncane.
Sizokwephula iziphakamiso zibe izigaba ezintathu ezinkulu: ukulungisa ikhaya lakho, ukuzitholela ngokwakho, nokuthola ithimba lakho lokusekela lilungele. Kukhona amathiphu amaningi, kodwa ungapheli amandla. Cishe ngeke udinga ukwazi konke, futhi ungagcina uhlu lokubheka lokho okudingayo ukwazi nokuthenga uma kudingeka.
Ukuthola ikhaya lakho lilungele
Ukulungela i-preemie yakho kufana nokulungele noma yimuphi umntwana, nakuba kunezinto ezimbalwa ezibalulekile okufanele uzikhumbule. Akuyona isayensi ye-rocket ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho ingadinga izinhlamvu ezincane, izigqoko, nezingubo zokugqoka, isibonelo-kodwa sithemba ukuthi usuqaphele ukuthi manje.
Lokho esikufunayo ukuthi ucabangele yizinto ozisebenzisayo ekhaya ezingahle zihlale ziphephile, zihlale uzizwa ukhululekile, futhi zingase zingahle zibe ngaphezulu kwazo zonke ezinye izinto okufanele zibe nazo.
Lezi yizinto zonke izingane okufanele zibe nazo ekhaya, futhi i-preemie yakho ayifani. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi bayizilinganiso ezifanele.
- Ama-diapers futhi asula
- Amabhodlela: Ngaphandle kokuthi unamaphesenti angu-100 kuphela ukondla, uzodinga amabhodlela okwanele ukuze udlule usuku ekhaya. Ngisho namamama amaningi okuncelisa ukubeletha ajabulela ukuba nomlingani noma umngane ukondla ingane njalo ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi izitha eziningi zithatha i-combo yamabele nebhodlela, okungenani ekuqaleni. Buza i-NICU yakho ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zamabhodlela namazinyo ingane yakho engayisebenzisa.
- Izembatho ezihambisanayo: Gcina engqondweni, izitha eziningi zikhula ngokushesha, ngakho-ke hamba ukuthenga amathani wezingubo zesayizi we-preemie. Zizobe zikhona kulabo osanda kuzalwa ngesikhathi esithile.
- Izikhwama ze-swaddle kanye / noma amasaka okulala: Uzofuna ukuzisebenzisa usebenzisa ngaphambi kokuqala ekhaya, ngakho-ke cela uma ungawaletha ku-NICU ngaphambi kokukhipha. Kukusiza uzizwe ukhululekile ukuyisebenzisa, futhi kusiza ingane yakho ukuba isetshenziswe kubo kusengaphambili.
- Endaweni ethile yokulala : Izimpi ze-Epic zingase zithathwe ngokuthi ubani onempendulo engcono kakhulu lapho ingane yakho kufanele ilele khona, kodwa lezi ziqondiso ezivela e-American Academy of Pediatrics yindawo enhle yokuqala. Ukukhuluma ne-NICU yakho ukuthi ngabe ngabe u-preemie wakho uzodinga yini umbhede okhethekile kubalulekile futhi.
- Ifomu: Thenga kuphela ifomula uma odokotela bakho batusa. Linda kuze nje ngaphambi kokuya ekhaya ukuthenga noma yikuphi, ngakho-ke uyazi ukuthi iyiphi indlela ingane yakho eseyisebenzisayo.
- I-thermometer yezingane: Qinisekisa ukuthi kufanelekile ukusetshenziselwa izinsana. Ama-thermometer amaningi amasha adijithali aklanyelwe izingane nabantwana abadala.
- Ibhuku: Kuhle kakhulu ukugeza umntanakho kunoma yisiphi isitsha esiphephile, kodwa abazali bavame ukukhetha ibhavu eyenzelwe ngqo abantwana. Uma uzobe usebenzisa enye yalezi, qhubeka futhi ukhethe eyodwa ngaphambi kokuba usuvele uhlala ekhaya.
- I-Nasal aspirator: Awufuni ukungazilungiseleli uma iphutha lokuqala eligijimayo, okuyinto ngokuqinisekile liyokwenza. Ama-syringes amabhule asebenza kahle, kodwa abazali asebenzise i-Nose Frida snot sucker (awuthandi lelo gama?) Ufunga ngalo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha, ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi kukhona into ekhona ukuze ugcine ikhala lomncane wakho licace.
- I-sanitizer yesandla: Ngakho wonke isivakashi unendlela esheshayo futhi elula yokugcina amagciwane kude nomncane wakho. Ungase ucabange ngamaski ebuso, futhi, uma kwenzeka umuntu eveza "ngemizimba" engabaza. Kuphephile kangcono kune-sorry.
- Imishanguzo yemithi : Uma ngabe i-preemie yakho ithatha noma imiphi imithi, uzofuna imishini esetshenziselwa ukuthola leyo mithi emntwaneni wakho, njengemithi ye-pacifier noma i-syringe. Buza i-NICU yakho ngezincomo, bese uqhubeka ufunda ngoba ngeke nje udinga imishini, kodwa kuzodingeka usebenzise nokusebenzisa nayo.
Lokho kuyizinto eziyisisekelo. Uma ingane yakho ikhona ku-NICU, noma kunjalo, ungathola ukuthi unesithakazelo kwezinye zezinto ezilandelayo. Buza i-NICU yakho mayelana nabo uma unemibuzo. Amanye amagajethi amaningi abazali abaningi abathanda ukuwafaka abandakanya:
- Ukuqapha kwezingane: Lezi zivela ezilula kuya eziyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa abazali abaningi bathanda ukuba nendlela yokubona nokuzwa izingane zabo uma zikhona emakamelweni ahlukene. Lezi zihlukile ezihlolweni zasekhaya zezokwelapha, eziza kuphela ngama-oda wakho odokotela. Labahloli basekhaya bakuvumela ukuba uzwe futhi ubone ingane yakho, futhi banikeza abazali ukuthula okukhulu kwengqondo.
- I-rock-play: Abazali abaningi be-preemie bafunga ngalokhu. Benza kube lula ukugcina ikhanda lomntwana liphakanyiswe kancane, elingasiza ngokususa i-reflux, futhi libagcina behamba ngokushelelayo, okuyinto i-crib yendabuko noma i-bassinette abakwazi ukuyenza.
- Baby swing: Izintandokazi zethu, ngokude, yi-mamaroo. Ezinye izingane ziye zasebenzisa ukuguqula okuthile ku-NICU, ngakho-ke ungase uthande ukuthenga into efanayo.
- Ukubopha, ukugoqa, noma ikhanda lesikhumba: Nakuba ingane yakho inkulu kakhulu manje, kusekhona izinzuzo zokuchitha isikhathi isikhumba nesikhumba. Ukugqoka kanye nezindwangu ezenziwe ngale njongo yizindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuqhubeka nomkhuba ngezingane ezinkulu. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuguqulwa kokusebenzisa eyodwa ukuqala ukusebenzisa ukugoqa noma i-shirt oyithandayo ngenkathi ingane iseseNICU. Ngaleyo ndlela, kuyisimo esivamile kumntanakho, into ayesetshenzisiwe kakade.
- Ukukhishwa kwekhanda elingenamikhono : Kufanele ube nalokhu kakade, ungalindeli uma uphonsa i-preemie yakho. Ukuhlanza kuyinto engokoqobo kwabaningi bama-preemie, futhi lezi zinduku ziyimpilo. Futhi ungakhohlwa i izikhwama zokugcina ubisi-ngeke usaba namahhala we-NICU.
- Izingane eziselula : Lokhu kungenye into engakujabulela ukuba nayo ekuqaleni ngoba ungakwazi ukudlala imisindo ngenkathi ingane yakho iseseNICU, bese leyo imisindo efanayo izobe iduduza futhi ijwayele ingane yakho uma uhlala ekhaya.
Uma unayo yonke into oyidingayo-indawo ephephile yengane yokulala kanye nempahla oyodinga ukuthi uhambe ngezinsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala noma amasonto-usulungele ukulungisa ukunakekelwa kwakho.
Ukuzilungiselela Ulungele
Nakhu okungenzeka ukuthi awuzange ucabange ngaphambili: Abazali abanezingane ezinempilo egcwele impilo yonke bazama ukufunda ngokunakekela izingane ngokulenga nabangani abanabantwana, noma ngokuya emakilasini, mhlawumbe ukufunda izincwadi . Kodwa abanayo ingane yabo yokuzijwayeza. Abanalo umqondo wokuthi yini ngempela ingane yabo engayithandayo noma engayithandi.
Ngakho-ke, uma kukhona into eyodwa oyithokoza ngayo nge-NICU, kungukuthi unethuba lokufunda ngomntanakho, ingane yakho yangempela, umntanakho, ngaphambi kokumthatha ekhaya. Lucky wena!
Asikwazi ukuqala ukukutshela ukuthi bangaki abazali abangathathi isikhathi sokufunda ingane yabo ngempela ngenkathi beseseNICU, kuzo zonke izizathu, okuhle nokubi. Mhlawumbe ngabasebenzi be-NICU abagcina abazali kude, noma mhlawumbe kunomuzwa wokuthi abahlengikazi bangcono kuwo futhi kufanele kube yibo abenza konke ukukhathazeka. Mhlawumbe kunzima ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ku-NICU uma unezinye izingane ekhaya.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokulungela ingane yakho ekhaya ukuzinikezela isikhathi esithile sokunakekela ingane yakho ngenkathi ikhona ku-NICU. Ukubamba ingane yakho kuhle, futhi ukushintsha ama-diapers kuhle kakhulu, kepha ngizokuhamba ngezindlela ongakwazi ngazo ingane yakho kangcono. Khona-ke uma ubuyela ekhaya, uzoba nesibindi futhi uphathe umthwalo, njengomzali omkhulu we-boss owake waphupha ukuthi uzoba njalo!
Uzofuna ukufunda okulandelayo.
- Ungashintsha kanjani i-diaper yengane yakho. Uma uvumela abahlengikazi ukuthi ufuna ukwenza izinguquko eziningi ze-diaper ngangokunokwenzeka uma ukhona, uqinisekile ukuthi uzothola okuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Khona-ke lokho kuyinto encane yokucindezeleka uma uthatha ingane yakho ekhaya.
- Indlela yokudla ingane yakho. Kwezinye izitha, lokhu akuyona into enkulu, futhi kwabanye, cishe akunakwenzeka ukuwathola ngokuphepha nangokuphumelelayo ukuthola lonke ubisi abadinga ukuqhubeka lukhula. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyini ingane yakho, kufanele ube ku-NICU eqhuba zonke izinhlobo ezahlukene zokondla ozokwenza-isifuba, ibhodlela, isondo, uhlelo lokunakekela izingane, noma yini. Kufanele ucele ukwenza okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi uthole lonke usizo ongayenza ngenkathi ukhona. Bheka abeluleki be-lactation uma uncelisa noma ubona abahlinzeki bezisebenzi noma izilimi zezinkulumo zokukhuluma uma ingane yakho inenkinga yokudla. Futhi usebenzise, sebenzisa, usebenzise.
- Ungathatha kanjani izinga lokushisa lomntanakho , futhi wazi ukuthi yini evamile kumntanakho.
- Indlela yokugeza ingane yakho . Vumela abahlengikazi bakho bazi ukuthi ufuna ukugeza, futhi ubacele ukuba basindise isikhathi sokugeza ukuze uthole umkhuba oyidingayo. Bonke abahlengikazi banemibono ehlukene mayelana nendlela ekahle yokugeza umntwana, ngakho-ke zizimisele ukuzama izindlela eziningi zokubona ukuthi yini wena nomntanakho othanda kakhulu.
- Indlela yokukhipha ingane yakho . Futhi, abahlengikazi banezitayela ezahlukene, ngakho-ke zama ukufunda kubantu abaningi abahlukene futhi uqinisekile ukuthola izindlela ezimbalwa ezikusebenzela kahle. Kanti futhi, indlela kuphela yokuthola okuhle kuyo ukuqhuba.
- Indlela yokuxuba ifomula lomntanakho noma ubisi oluqinile . Izithasiselo eziningi zidinga ukuba nekhalori elengeziwe ekudleni kwazo, futhi lokho kusho ukuthi abazali kufanele bazi ukuthi bangahlangana kanjani nobisi abazobe besondla ingane yabo. Ungalindi kuze kube usuku lokugcina ukuze ufunde ukwenza lokhu. Cela ukusiza ngokuxuba ubisi lwezingane zakho kusenesikhathi, futhi maduzane uzokhululeka ngomsebenzi.
- Indlela yokunikeza imithi. Uma ingane yakho idinga noma yimiphi imithi, njengamavithamini amaningi noma ama-reflux meds, qiniseka ukuthi unesihlengikazi sikhombisa izindlela ezimbalwa ezihlukile zokubanika ingane yakho bese uzijwayela wena.
- Indlela yokunciphisa ingane yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuba nabanye abantu bakutshele ukuthi ingane yakho ithandani uma iyakhathazeka ngoba mhlawumbe kunokuba ucabange ukuthi wena ngokwakho, induduzo yendlu yakho. Kodwa abahlengikazi be-NICU banamakhono okuhlangenwe nakho okusiza izingane ezikhungathekile, kanti ezinye zazo ziqinisekile ukuthi zenze ezinye izinto ezisebenza kahle nomncane wakho omncane. Thatha iziphakamiso bese uwasebenzisa njengoba kudingeka.
- Indlela yokusifakaza ingane yakho. Uma unenhlanhla ngokwanele yokuba nomuntu onabasebenzi abangakusifundisa izindlela zokwehlisa i-preemie yakho , yenzeni! Abazali bakhokhela amabhakede amakhulu ngezinye izikhathi ukuba abefundisi bebafundisa lokhu, kodwa ungaba nokufinyelela kubafundisi abakhulu ku-NICU yakho.
- Thola ukuthi uzodinga yini imishini ekhethekile ekhaya, futhi uthole ukuqeqeshwa okudingayo. Ezinye izingane zidinga imishini ekhethekile efana ne-oksijeni kanye namapayipi okudla futhi izoba nabanakekeli bezempilo ekhaya. Uma ingane yakho idinga noma yikuphi kwalokhu, zama ukuthola ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi qala ukuqhuba nabo ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka! Ungalindeli kuze kube usuku lokugcina noma ezimbili ukuze ukhululeke ngemishini. Ngaphandle kokungabaza, kuzoba khona izinselelo kanye nezingxabano nganoma yiluphi uhlobo lwemishini yasendlini futhi kungcono ukusebenza ngalabo ngenkathi usenabasebenzi be-NICU khona lapho ukusiza.
- I-CPR yabantwana. Abazali abaningi, ngokubonga, abasoze badingeke basebenzise amakhono e-CPR, kodwa umuzwa omuhle ukwazi ukuthi uzokwazi ukuthi benzeni uma kwenzeka isimo esiphuthumayo. Uma isibhedlela sakho singenakho ukuqeqeshwa kwe-CPR etholakalayo, babuze ukuthi ungathatha yini itlasi.
- Ukungena ngaphakathi. Ezinye izibhedlela zivumela ukuhlala ngaphakathi, lapho abazali behlala esibhedlela ubusuku noma izinsuku ezimbalwa, bezama ukunakekelwa ngokugcwele kwengane yabo ngenkathi behlala endaweni yokuphepha esibhedlela. Kuhle ukwenza uma kutholakala.
Ukuthola Ukusekela Kwakho Ithimba Lilungele
Ukusekela kuyoba okuhlukile kuwo wonke umndeni, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu.
Kuwe, ithimba lakho lokusekela lingamane libe ngumkakho noma umyeni wakho. Noma ithimba lakho lokusekela lingase libe ngumyeni wakho, abazali bakho, kanye nabangane abambalwa abaseduze. Kwabanye, ukuxhaswa kungase kube ngumphakathi wonke wesonto, abangani beqembu lokusekela, ugogo nomkhulu , omncanekazi, omalume nokuningi.
Ayikho indlela engcono kunomunye. Kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ubani ozokusekela ekhaya, futhi usize ukuthi bangazilungiselela kanjani usuku oluthatha ingane yakho ekhaya.
- Yabelana ngalesi sihloko nomngane wakho womshado noma umlingani wakho. Siza ukuthi aqonde ukuthi yini esengozini, nokuthi bangakanani abangakwenza ukuze basize ukwenza lolu shintsho lube lula.
- Bonisa ukuthi ngubani osimba lakho lezokusekela. Bese uyeka ucabange ukuthi lelo thimba lingakusiza kanjani. Ingabe uzothola ukusekelwa okwanele, noma bekuyoba nengqondo ukufika kumngane oseduze noma isihlobo ukucela usizo oluncane? Uma kunjalo, kwenzeke manje kunokuba kamuva uma ukhathele kakhulu noma ukhululekile ukucabanga ukucela usizo.
- Cabanga ngalokho ongathanda ngempela, ngokusekela. Ingabe ufuna umuntu akunike ikhefu kanye ngosuku ukuze ukwazi ukuhamba? Ufuna usizo ngokuhlanza noma ukudla? Ingabe ufuna umuntu ukuthi akhulume naye, noma ukuthula futhi ethule ukuze aphume ngenkathi basiza ngomsebenzi wendlu? Abangane kanye namalungu omndeni ngokuvamile bafuna ukusiza kodwa kaningi abazi ukuthi benzeni, ngakho-ke bazisize ukuthi bakusize ngokubatshela ukuthi yini oyifunayo. Uyothokoza ukuthi wenza.
- Cabanga ngeqembu lokusekela. I-NICU ne-prematurity ziyingozi kakhulu imicimbi yokuphila, futhi igcizelela abazali ngaphandle, okuningi. Ukuthatha ingane yakho ekhaya kusuka ku-NICU kungase kubonakale sengathi ungena "izikhathi ezivamile" zengane, kepha ukuzungezela nabanye abazali "izingane" ezivamile kungakushiya ucindezelekile futhi uzizwe wedwa ngoba labo bazali ngeke babonge izwe eliyingozi. ngiye ngiphila kulo. Cabanga ukuxhuma namanye ama-preemie mama nabababa ukukusiza uzizwe uzwela futhi uqondwa. Ukucwaninga kubonisa ukuthi kuyasiza kakhulu.
- Khetha udokotela wezingane ngokuhlakanipha. Uma ungakakhethi uchwepheshe wezingane , zama ukuthola umuntu ohlangenwe nakho ngezingane ezifana nezakho. Kuyamukeleka ngokuphelele ukucela ukuhlangabezana nodokotela abanokuzibuza bese ubabuza ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ukunakekela izitha. Zizoba yingxenye enkulu yeqembu lakho lokusekela ngemva kokuya ekhaya, ngakho-ke ufuna eyodwa oyenakekelayo ithemba futhi uxhumane nayo.
- Thola ukuthi yiziphi izinkampani ozozibona. Ngokuqinisekile uzobona ochwepheshe abanjengabahlinzeka ngemithi, abahlengikazi bezingxoxo, abacebisi be-lactation, nokuningi emva kokuthatha ikhaya lakho le-preemie. Bayo, futhi, bazodlala indima ebalulekile eqenjini lakho lokusekela ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uyazi zonke izinsiza zakho ngemuva kokushiya esibhedlela futhi ugcine ngokucacile wonke ama-aphoyintimenti wokulandelela.
- Nikeza umndeni wakho ukuqonda okucacile ukuthi yikuphi ukuhambela okuyoba khona. Abangane nomndeni ngokwemvelo bajabule kakhulu ekugcineni bahlangabezane nomncane wakho futhi bachithe isikhathi ndawonye. Kungenzeka ukuthi abanalo umqondo nje ukuthi uke wabulawa ngokomzwelo futhi uzobe usukhona. Cishe ngempela bafuna ukusiza futhi nje badinga isiqondiso sakho ukuze ubonise ukuthi bangabasekeli abakhulu kangakanani. Okokuqala, ngokuqinisekile ngeke ube nezivakashi ezigulayo. Qiniseka ukuthi ubatshele lokhu. Uma udinga isikhathi sokubopha futhi ungafuni izivakashi inyanga, lokho kuyiqiniso. Batshele.
Sithemba ukuthi lolu hlu lwemibono lusiza uzizwe ulungele kakhulu uma usuku olujabulisayo lufika futhi uthatha ukuthatha ikhaya lakho elihle le-preemie. Akukho lutho olungaqeda ukukhathazeka oyokuzwa, kodwa ukulungiswa kwenza kube lula kakhulu. Inhlanhla, futhi hamba ulungele usuku oluhle kakhulu!