Okubalulekile ngokubikezela ngokobulili
Uma nje umemezela ukukhulelwa kwakho , kubonakala sengathi wonke umuntu unendlela yakhe futhi isethi sitshela ukubikezela ubulili bomntwana wakho. Abazali abangamaphesenti angu-80 empeleni bakhetha ukuthola ulwazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma ngabe banomfana noma intombazane. Uma ungenaso isithakazelo ekutholeni , kuhle nakakhulu. Kodwa uma ilukuluku lakho luthintekile, nansi izindlela zokubikezela ubulili bomntanakho.
I-Mid-Pregnancy Ultrasound
I-Ultrasound cishe indlela ejwayelekile kakhulu yokuthola ubulili bomntwana.
Lokhu kuvame ukwenza phakathi kwamaviki angu- 18 no- 20 okukhulelwa . (Uma umhleli wakho ehlela isimiso se-ultrasound kuleli phuzu ngesisekelo, umshwalense wakho kungenzeka noma angafihli icala.)
Ngezinye izikhathi kungadingeka ukuthi uhlele i-ultrasound ngenhloso ethile yokuthola ubulili bomntwana. Lokhu kungakuqhubela phezulu kwe $ 300 ngaphandle kwephaketheni futhi ngokuvamile awuhlanganiswa nomshuwalense. Khumbula, i-ultrasound ayikwazi njalo ukutshela ubulili bomntwana, akusiyo njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izinqubomgomo zehhovisi azikwazanga ukutshela ubulili.
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Uthola Nini Ukulala Ngomntwana Wakho?
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Izitshengiselo Zobunjiniyela be-Ultrasound Bheka Ukunquma NgokweSonto Lomntwana
Qiniseka ukuthi ubuza imibuzo ngaphambi kokuvuma i-ultrasound.
Kukhona nezitolo ezinikezela ngezinsizakalo ezifanayo, kepha azibandakanye nemikhuba yezokwelapha. Zibizwa ngokuthi ama-ultrasound futhi azikhuthazwa yi-Food and Drug Administration (FDA).
Indlela kaRamzi
Lena indlela entsha yokunquma ubulili bomntwana ekukhulelweni kokuqala nge-ultrasound. Ingasetshenziselwa ukuzungeza isonto lamasonto ayisithupha ekukhulelwe futhi inqume ubulili ngokusekelwe endaweni ye- placenta . Akuvamile ukwenza, kodwa kukhona okubambelayo.
Into eyodwa okumele uyiqaphele ukuthi lokho okubonayo esikrinini se-ultrasound ngezinye izikhathi kunomqondo ohlukile kunalokho okuyikho empilweni yangempela.
Uma une- ultrasound yokuqala ekukhulelweni , qiniseka ukuthi ubuze mayelana nendawo ye-placenta kunokuqagela okusekelwe kuphela esikrinini.
Ukuhlolwa kwe-Genetic
Ukuvivinya umzimba kusetshenziselwa ukunquma ubulili bomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Izindlela ezimbili ezivame kakhulu eziyingozi:
- Amniocentesis: Ngokuvamile kwenziwa ngemva kwesonto 16 kodwa kungenziwa kancane ngaphambili.
- I-Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS): Kungenziwa phakathi kweviki leshumi neshumi nambili lokukhulelwa.
Lezi zivivinyo cishe zingamaphesenti angu-99 enembile ekubikezeleni ubulili bomntwana. Kodwa ngenxa yesikhashana esincane sokutheleleka noma ukukhulelwa ukukhulelwa okuhambisana nalezi zindlela, azivame ukusetshenziswa njengendlela eyodwa yokunquma ubulili bomntwana wakho. Kunalokho, babheka ukwaziswa kofuzo. Ukwaziswa ngobulili kuyinzuzo eyengeziwe.
Olunye uhlobo lokuhlolwa kofuzo lwenziwa ngokusebenzisa isampula yegazi lomama. Lezi zivivinyo ezintsha zibizwa ngokuthi i-cell free DNA test - sebenzisa i-DNA yokufelwa etholakala egazini likaMama. Zisetshenziswa ekupheleni kwe-trimester yokuqala.
Intelligender
Lena ukuhlolwa kwekhaya okusekelwe kumchamo.
Ingasetshenziswa masinyane ngesonto leshumi lokubeletha futhi libheke amaseli athile emcinini womama ukuze athole ukuthi uthwele umfana noma intombazane.
Isivivinyo sithengiswa ku-inthanethi nakuma-drugstores futhi singasetshenziswa ngaphandle kokusebenzisa udokotela wakho. Kodwa-ke, akusekelwe kwisayensi futhi ayikho ucwaningo olusisekelayo. Lokho kusho ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukukwenza ngenjabulo ngaphambi kokuba bathole ubulili bomntwana kudokotela noma umbelethisi wabo.
Ubukhulu beBelly & Shape
I-Bellies ihluke kakhulu komunye nomunye-njengoba ungabona kusuka ezithombeni ezibelethwe lapha. Iningi lezindaba zithi ukuqhuba phambili nangenxazonke kusho umfana. Uma ubheka ukhulelwe nxazonke, noma uthwele ohlangothini oluhlangene, kufanele ube yintombazane .
Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyindaba evamile yamakhosikazi omdala, kodwa kuyinto ejabulisayo. Ngokuyinhloko, ubungako nokuma kwesisu sakho kunqunywa umzimba wakho ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, inani nesisindo sokuthola isisindo ekukhulelweni , nezinye izinto ezingekho ekulawuleni kwakho.
Amakhalenda e-Lunar ase-Chinese
Lena enye indlela yokumangalela-yesayensi yokubikezela ukuthi uzobe uhambisa umfana noma intombazane.
Ngokususelwa eminyakeni yobudala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kanye nenyanga yokukhulelwa eyenzekayo, uzokwaziswa ngocansi lwendodana yakho engakazalwa (noma engakazalwa). Abanye abantu bathi ukungafani kubangelwa ukuthi amaShayina acabangela umntwana osanda kuzalwa ukuba abe unyaka owodwa ubudala.
Le ndlela idonsa kakhulu ukubuza imibuzo, ngokuvamile ngoba ungathola okungenani izinguqulo ezine ezi-intanethi ngokuqondene nalokho okushiwo umfana nokuthi uyini intombazane. Angizange ngibeke isitoreji esiningi kubo ngokuqondile. Ngokuyinhloko nje kumnandi.
Isilinganiso senhliziyo ye-Fetal
Eminyakeni eminingi edlule abantu bathi uma ubheka izinga lokushaya kwenhliziyo ungakwazi ukubikezela ubulili bomntanakho-ngokuqondile ukuthi ngaphezulu kwezingu-140 ngezimoto kusho intombazane nangaphansi kwezintambo ezingu-140 ngomzuzu okusho umfana.
Kuye kwaba khona uphenyo olwenziwe ukunquma ukuthi lokhu kunembile yini noma cha, nakuba ukutholakala kubonakala kungabonakali. Abanye bathi ukuthembela ekutheni izinga lokushaya kwentombazane libikezela ukuthi ubulili bomntwana buyathembeka kuphela uma ubheka phakathi nenyanga yokuqala, kanti abanye bathi akuyona into evumelekile nhlobo.
I-Folklore & Ama-Old Wives Tale
Kungekudala, lezi yizo zonke abazali abazohamba ngazo ukubikezela ubulili bomntwana wabo, kufaka phakathi izinto ezifana nalokho okudlayo nokuthi ubuthongo kanjani ukubeka umphumela wesini. Abantu bathi banembile, nakuba bahloswe njengokuzijabulisa okungenabungozi. Uma kuvela kahle, khona-ke nje ibhonasi eyengeziwe! Hlola lokhu kuhlolwa ukuze uzizwe.
Ukuhlela ubulili (Ukukhetha ngokocansi)
Kunzima ukukhuluma ngocansi lomntanakho ekukhulelweni ngaphandle kokusho ikhono lokulungiselela ubulili bomntanakho . Ngemva kwakho konke, kungani ushiya noma yini nje ngengozi! Manje ungazama ngokuqondile umfana noma intombazane . (Empeleni, kunethuba elincane kangcono lokuthi wonke umuntu uzoba nomfana. Amamama asebekhulile nabo banamathuba okuba nabafana ngokwezifundo ezithile zakamuva.)
Iningi lezinqubo zokukhetha ngokocansi lisekelwe ezinyathelweni eziphezulu zokwelashwa eziyingozi futhi ezibiza. Nakuba kunesabelo esilungile sezinkomba zokukhetha ucansi ezibhekwa ngabanye ngaphandle kwemininingwane eminingi noma isayensi ngemuva kwabo.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Ubulili bendodana yakho yinto ozokugcina ekutholeni-kungaba ukuthi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Abanye bathi ukutholakala kubasiza ukuba bahlanganise nengane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa; abanye bathi ukungazi ubulili bomntwana wabo kubasiza ukuba bashukumise ngesikhathi sokuqhuma kokugcina ekupheleni komsebenzi. Noma ngabe yikuphi, abazali abaningi banenjabulo ngempela futhi bakhumbula kalula ukuthi bazizwa kanjani umzuzwana lapho bezwa amagama omlingo, "Kuyinto ...".
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